tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4572853366163903535.post4360552899841948711..comments2024-03-27T17:27:38.563+05:30Comments on Life And Psychology: RELATIONSHIP INSECURITY MAKES MATTERS WORSESaif Farooqihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04497624491219843716noreply@blogger.comBlogger24125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4572853366163903535.post-54422603970694317592011-10-04T12:34:12.088+05:302011-10-04T12:34:12.088+05:30@ mydi
Well, just try not to force things to happe...@ mydi<br />Well, just try not to force things to happen. Take things as they come and don't engross yourself too much into the relationship.<br /><br />Also, don't think too much about what's going to happen later. There's a possibility that your relationship may develop in such a good way that you may not even feel any insecurities. <br /><br />The key is that don't think too much. :)Saif Farooqihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04497624491219843716noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4572853366163903535.post-41471401548731065052011-09-17T14:11:53.199+05:302011-09-17T14:11:53.199+05:30I just entered a new relationship, and I can sense...I just entered a new relationship, and I can sense that I may be entering that phase of relationship insecurity. Because I know prior to the relationship I am extremely confident in myself but not in a deep relationship.<br /><br />I really want this to change and I was wondering what are your thoughts to help me curb any insecurities I may get later. <br /><br />Thanks so much in advance! :)mydinoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4572853366163903535.post-20408040052890002222011-02-15T19:22:06.664+05:302011-02-15T19:22:06.664+05:30@ Innessa
Thanks a lot ... glad to know that you l...@ Innessa<br />Thanks a lot ... glad to know that you liked it :)Saif Farooqihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04497624491219843716noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4572853366163903535.post-69692847903216244472011-02-11T07:49:49.132+05:302011-02-11T07:49:49.132+05:30wow.. this is great. right to the point and very a...wow.. this is great. right to the point and very accurate.Innessahttp://innessak.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4572853366163903535.post-63069674353411121912010-07-20T19:11:39.042+05:302010-07-20T19:11:39.042+05:30@ The Panorama
Oh narcissism is something that'...@ The Panorama<br />Oh narcissism is something that's quite different ... the closest that comes to this is borderline personality disorder (BPD), but that of course is at a much higher level and relationship insecurity is just one aspect among many others in BPD.<br /><br />I agree that understanding can only be to a certain level ... i mean one can't expect the other person to understand you in each and every situation or for that matter for ever ... that will be selfishness.<br /><br />... and yeah you're right, these issues have to be resolved before entering a new relationship, but somehow they don't ... even though things should happen differently, it just does not seem to be within the control of the individual ...Saif Farooqihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04497624491219843716noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4572853366163903535.post-62078136241275555992010-07-20T01:31:45.757+05:302010-07-20T01:31:45.757+05:30Interesting post. This sounds like a relationship ...Interesting post. This sounds like a relationship between a narcissist and a normal person. The same dance. You say the other person should be understanding...yes, but I would say only upto a certain point because sometimes such individuals drain other people. But maybe there is a difference between a person suffering from insecurity in a relationship and a relationship with a narcissist?<br /><br />I think one has to resolve these issues before going into a new relationship. But that can take a lifetime sometimes. <br /><br />Good Post!The Panoramahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17919885693479046926noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4572853366163903535.post-78496357559039974712010-06-23T18:27:59.985+05:302010-06-23T18:27:59.985+05:30@ kp
Thanks for liking it. Yeah maybe some time I ...@ kp<br />Thanks for liking it. Yeah maybe some time I will write about the things that you have mentioned. But, I think I have written a little bit of it in the end of the post ...Saif Farooqihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04497624491219843716noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4572853366163903535.post-60448725985191776022010-06-23T03:12:18.911+05:302010-06-23T03:12:18.911+05:30Thanks for writing! Very logical indeed. For your ...Thanks for writing! Very logical indeed. For your next post, please mention how one can get past the relationship insecurity and how to communicate with their partners better regarding these insecurities (if we should). Thanks again!kpnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4572853366163903535.post-75230106675252559922010-04-03T19:21:58.605+05:302010-04-03T19:21:58.605+05:30@ Kn
Thanks a lot! ... keep visiting :D@ Kn<br />Thanks a lot! ... keep visiting :DSaif Farooqihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04497624491219843716noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4572853366163903535.post-52529347639246995222010-04-01T22:38:17.416+05:302010-04-01T22:38:17.416+05:30Hmm....
Great writing!! U express ur thinking so w...Hmm....<br />Great writing!! U express ur thinking so well!!<br />Keep writing :-) !!Knhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08970813535039357391noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4572853366163903535.post-90389888396529842772010-02-15T19:23:42.058+05:302010-02-15T19:23:42.058+05:30@ AJ
Glad to know that you liked my posts and foun...@ AJ<br />Glad to know that you liked my posts and found them informative.<br /><br />You can always contact me on my e-mail address for any kind of questions and discussions.<br /><br />I have gone through your blog (just a glance) and have found it quite interesting ... will read it thoroughly as soon as possible ...Saif Farooqihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04497624491219843716noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4572853366163903535.post-51642812556662222292010-02-14T19:13:39.773+05:302010-02-14T19:13:39.773+05:30Just read 4 of your most recent posts. Very inform...Just read 4 of your most recent posts. Very informative! Can you be my shrink? :)<br /><br />Oh, and this insightful post is very timely. I read it on Valentine's Day - the day of love and relationships.<br /><br />Thanks for sharing! And happy VD!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4572853366163903535.post-66588854673813453642010-01-23T23:18:04.548+05:302010-01-23T23:18:04.548+05:30@ M S Ahluwalia
Nice to know that you like my blog...@ M S Ahluwalia<br />Nice to know that you like my blog ... and thanks for following it :)Saif Farooqihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04497624491219843716noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4572853366163903535.post-9348080376181794002010-01-21T23:16:56.055+05:302010-01-21T23:16:56.055+05:30Nice blog saif.. and well-designed too.. keep up t...Nice blog saif.. and well-designed too.. keep up the good work! Following you :)<br /><br />M S Ahluwalia<br />http://msahluwalia.blogspot.comMS Ahluwaliahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13374748293240911803noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4572853366163903535.post-90051795093137237492010-01-16T21:18:46.422+05:302010-01-16T21:18:46.422+05:30@ Sara
haha ... welcome and thanks :D ... yes, I k...@ Sara<br />haha ... welcome and thanks :D ... yes, I keep updating my blog regularly ... and yeah you do be regular in posting comments on it :DSaif Farooqihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04497624491219843716noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4572853366163903535.post-38440823706634869632010-01-16T18:25:25.314+05:302010-01-16T18:25:25.314+05:30oh wow, i haven't been here in a long time as ...oh wow, i haven't been here in a long time as well.. interesting as always! thanks for updating ur blog regularly =) and for stopping by mine .. heheAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14195949712748142292noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4572853366163903535.post-41781612360161196872010-01-11T21:46:43.310+05:302010-01-11T21:46:43.310+05:30@ Ketan
Nice to know that you liked it and felt th...@ Ketan<br />Nice to know that you liked it and felt that way ...<br /><br /><br /><br />@ Nameless Fameless<br />Good to know that you liked the article ... thanks for visiting.<br /><br /><br /><br />@ Firefly<br />Its really nice to receive appreciation from an established person like you.<br /><br />Yeah, it'll be nice to talk to you further, will be looking forward for that ... and you being an Arts based therapist has aroused a lot of curiosity in me to learn more about it.Saif Farooqihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04497624491219843716noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4572853366163903535.post-87991621060794454282010-01-11T21:39:03.574+05:302010-01-11T21:39:03.574+05:30@ Rakesh
Yeah, true ... relationships should alway...@ Rakesh<br />Yeah, true ... relationships should always be handled with care ...<br /><br /><br /><br />@ Tipu Bhai (Tausif)<br />Yeah, relationship insecurity does make life miserable. The sad part is that it is never meant to be that way. People get insecure without even realizing it and it then creates a lot of troubles.<br /><br /><br /><br />@ Darshan<br />Glad to know that you felt that way ...Saif Farooqihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04497624491219843716noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4572853366163903535.post-55343776002678175262010-01-10T13:09:29.458+05:302010-01-10T13:09:29.458+05:30Greetings!This made a lovely read Mr. Farooque.Me ...Greetings!This made a lovely read Mr. Farooque.Me a psychologist and an Arts Based Therapist..wish to talk to you further..as our ares of work are similar..quite an insightful post....Fireflyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07772805935226106493noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4572853366163903535.post-85982546773949069982010-01-10T00:09:08.845+05:302010-01-10T00:09:08.845+05:30hey its a very well explained article !! very very...hey its a very well explained article !! very very nice !!Nameless Famelesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07155882153694245301noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4572853366163903535.post-5826120839541613542010-01-08T19:16:10.958+05:302010-01-08T19:16:10.958+05:30Amazing...Very well said...Amazing...Very well said...Ketan - www.ketans.comhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15158549390004399689noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4572853366163903535.post-42043172190832689972010-01-08T15:12:45.105+05:302010-01-08T15:12:45.105+05:30Very logical and true !!
Keep writing !!Very logical and true !!<br /><br />Keep writing !!दर्शनhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10062999962877720229noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4572853366163903535.post-3419468920843290712010-01-07T22:06:23.346+05:302010-01-07T22:06:23.346+05:30This is a very nice write up. I've seen people...This is a very nice write up. I've seen people with the kind of insecurity you've written about and it really does make life miserable for both people in the relationship.TFhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07164368318774378275noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4572853366163903535.post-36311470248540671372010-01-07T21:54:26.916+05:302010-01-07T21:54:26.916+05:30A lot of care needs to be taken in a relationship,...A lot of care needs to be taken in a relationship, at all times and that makes things a lot easier, I believe!<br /><br />Interesting post - as always!Rakesh Vanamalihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03918768913569739758noreply@blogger.com